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ewebeak's avatar

Reading this, I realize for the first time, that Martha Stewart shares a first name with Jesus' friend. I can picture Him saying to modern-day Martha the same thing He said many years ago: "Martha, Martha, you are worried and upset about many things, but one thing is necessary." (Luke 10:41)

I often repeat the same lines to myself when I get too caught up in my own homemaking. Thank you for the gentle reminder to focus first on the people in our homes. 💚

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Mickey Schumm's avatar

oh my I remember Martha! It was so hard not to think about people with nice new houses beautifully decorated while I was in a 100 year old farmhouse with a 1950/1960s kitchen. And then I would think about my Mamaw who always just wanted people to come in to her very small trailer to visit and started offering sweet tea and chocolate cake with buttercream frosting.

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Cheryl's avatar

And now those 100 yo farmhouses are the trend!!

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Jody's avatar

Thank you for this simple but beautifully written reminder that it’s the people, not the place, that make life worth living.

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Cheryl's avatar

This is so true. I remember when I was growing up we always spent our weekends going to visit different folks. People don't do that anymore.

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Pamela Feldhues's avatar

Amen, Heather! I have the gift of hospitality but I truly hope it’s the warmth of a hug, a compassionate heart and a glass of decaf tea or coffee that continues to bring them to our home!

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Mrs. C's avatar

I had the opposite of Mamaw in my own mother and it had detrimental effects on my own attempts at hospitality or lack thereof. At 54, I have fought through the self-imposed doubts and rules I had formed through my mom's influence to finally understand the deeper meaning and gift of hospitality as opposed to entertaining. My husband's aunt, much like your Mamaw, was my real life example of what is meant by hospitality.

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Heather @ To Sow a Seed's avatar

My mom was much more Martha than Mamaw. It was quite a dichotomy.

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Lucille's avatar

Thanks Heather

I really needed to be reminded of this again😊

My husband is fond of a saying he read years ago on a sugar sachet : Life is what happens while we're making other plans!

Off to the kitchen to make some pie...!

Lucille from South Africa

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Sarah Abete's avatar

Oh I love this!

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JANI's avatar

Oh, Heather! Once again, you've hit the nail on the head. You had me laughing at MS... how well I remember those days.

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Heather @ To Sow a Seed's avatar

She was a force of nature, wasn't she? LOL

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Jani's avatar

She definitely knew it all. And such an amazing vocabulary. I was in it for the descriptive words.

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